25. února 2021 v 17:48
Sam
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chey September 12, 2011 at 11:46 am
Oh man, did I need to read this one… THANK YOU!
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Aly September 13, 2011 at 2:32 pm
I’ve / I’d been with my boyfriend for 2 years and like many others had alot of ups and downs. He lost his job about 6 weeks after we got together and I supported him anyway i could, without screwing myself over, he moved in to save money and his increasing debt. It took 6 mths for him to get another job, but after 6 months in this new job there was a massive misunderstanding and they sacked him. It took yet another 6 months for him to find another job.
25. února 2021 v 17:48
Sam
I expected and still want an eventual life companion and I’m not going to put my daughter through that, even if she’s too young to understand it all right now. It’s very difficult to deal with. At one minute, I’m angry for him not sucking it up and being there for the family he created and at another I’m glad for him to go and see what it’s like without me. I obviously can’t go full no contact but I plan to make it extremely limited. I don’t know if we’ll get back together. It hurts that I’m now in a position to be a single mom, I’m looking for work and I really understand overemphasizing he status of a relationship now. I’m not his wife, even if I treated him like my husband. We don’t fight. We get along great. We have amazing physical compatibility and he said he just doesn’t know what it is, but he’s not happy. I feel like the early pregnancy really hurt us, as he felt internal pressure to move things along. It’s not fair, but I just have to let him go for now. Sometimes I think about dating, but it seems so overwhelming. I have a baby now, and so much more goes with that. Plus, I love him. But I can’t make someone want to be with me, so like you said… Keep it moving and expect nothing right?
